Love is a bitch
Love is a bitch and everyone knows it. Why go through pain when you can see brightness on the other side? The thing about us ladies is that we often chase for pain. In other word
'chicks dig bad boys'. Why? Well drama is like magnets to the ladies, whether they like or not, its always there. A friend of mine,mira. She is this sweet loving lady but often gets hurt by her long distance relationship. The guy is her ultimate dream guy. Good looking, smart, responsible and they have been dating for 2 years! BUT the catch is, the guy seldom calls her and its often. She wonders why, crying about it. I feel her pain cause i was going through it. Well mira if you're reading this, here is what i've got to say. Mira darling, we ladies are like
diamonds. We were brought up and have been educated well to be wasting our tears for a guy who doesn't realize it. Yes sometimes we feel that 2 years is a long time and that we should just give it another chance. But honey we seldom think about these things that it keeps on hanging. We are the one feeling the pain but the guy? If he is feeling the same way, wouldn't he call you?! Ladies has this soft part in their heart which is called forgiveness. We forgive them for all their wrong doings by hoping the guy would understand where are we coming from. Which is whenever shit happens in the relationship,we want the guy to appreciate us for what we have done. Mira, this guy is not putting any effort to love you as much as you are loving him. Sometimes love is not enough to give you the life you wanted.Why loving him and at the same time hurting yourself? Think about it, what is worth it? if you think waiting for him and continuing loving him is worth the pain, well please continue. But if its not baby girl, moving on its hard but its the answer to your miseries.
